So lately I've been realizing that being vulnerable with people isn't as bad as you think it will be. I've seen the freedom in this recently. I've been blessed to work out a situation with a friend in such a real and freeing way. I'm thankful that at this point in my life I can see a potentially awkward situation and laugh at the possible ways of smoothing it out. And then easily move past it and continue living in the joyful moments of my life.
We shouldn't have to hold back our feelings because it's what society says we should do. If it will hurt others keep it to yourself but also learn to throw those thoughts out. If it will make you look dumb, but may resolve the issue, then speak up. People will be so much more responsive to you when you don't sit and stew in the drama. How prideful does it make me when I choose not to be honest with someone because it will make me look bad?
Put others first. Love others more. Show others you are genuine about them and life will begin to be less complicated. Drama-free. There is freedom in knowing yourself and finding out that those who accept you for all your faults are the people that really matter in your life. So don't hold back. Don't miss an opportunity to tell someone how you feel, tell them that they are beautiful today, or that they have made a difference in your life. Be willing to laugh at yourself during the hard times and uncomfortable moments. If what you're seeking doesn't work out, then at least you'll know you tried; and that feeling always wins over regret. Don't let the way people think of you make or break you.
Thanks to my friend who let me be completely honest and let down my guard and who showed me grace in the whole situation. Thanks for being able to laugh with me over it all and put it past us.
